It's Who I Am

Today was the first father's day since becoming one, that I did not wake up to Lori's beautiful face.  It was certainly difficult.  That beautiful face and the beautiful person behind it is the reason that I became a dad after all.  Still, the kids did everything they could to make me feel special, and I am lucky to have them in my life.

Being a father defines me.  It's who I am.   I work hard at it, and every minute that I spend with the kids makes my life better.  I feel like I am a great dad, and I'm proud of the job that I have done with Christopher and Aidan.  Aidan is growing into a fine young man, and Christopher is trying to be more and more like him each and every day.  Each is very special in their own way, and I would not change a thing about them.  I love them more than anything in this world.

For Father's Day, we spent the weekend in Temple with my mom and brother.  I am glad that the boys got to see their Grandma and Uncle.  It had been far too long since we were there.  I only wish that my father was still alive.  I would have loved to give him a father's day hug, and watch him play with his grand children.  He would be proud, and they would love my pop.

Happy Father's Day dad, and Happy Father's day to me too.  You taught me well.

William